By Maria Moratto Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. ~ Truman Capote One day I was having a great conversation with my friend Linda over lunch and we were discussing precisely this point. She came up with this great analogy. She said: "If I asked you for a banana right now, could you give me one?" "Of course not," I replied. "Why?" she asked again, in which I replied: "Because I dont have one now; in fact, I dont even have one in my house! To be honest, I dont appreciate bananas so I could never give you one, unless I go out of my way to buy it for you." There. A man cant give what he doesnt have...and neither can a woman. In my case, I wanted my men to give me love, fidelity, appreciation, devotion, loyalty, understanding, etc., etc., etc., but how could they give me these things if they didnt have it to give to me? Perhaps they did give all these things and more to other better suited women, but not to me, and I have to face the fact that the men I loved were the wrong men for me, for So I learned that there is such a thing as the "right man;" we only need to desire him and let him in our lives. Many women get angry because their men dont give them what they need. How about understanding that it is not possible to receive from those who cant give? If we expect to receive what they dont have to give, we end up living with disappointment and resentment. Then anger mounts, and then unhappiness sets in, followed by unwillingness and hatred and soon we see that we have destroyed our relationship. Now, what if you want something your man cant give you? Worse, what if you need something that your man cant give you? That means you are related to the wrong man. Of course you realize that the reverse is also true. How many times can you count when you were asked to give you didnt have? And now for the million dollar question: how late is it to realize you have the wrong man in our life? Can you live without? A Word of Advice
Ladies and Gents: How willing are you to live with someone who cant give you what you need? What concessions are you willing to make and where do your compromises lie? Is it time for a renewal or dissolution of your vows? Maria Moratto 2006
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